You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all?You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is.The trick to successfully vetting a prospect on a first date, while simultaneously keeping the energy light and fun, is knowing what questions to ask and how to ask them. What are their likes and dislikes, what do you have in common, what does he or she do in their spare time? For example, work, his or her family, hobbies, pop culture, and favorite music are all surefire bets. If you’re savvy, you’ll realize that certain questions–even the most basic ones—have the ability to tell a lot about a person. Time to seal the deal—the last few minutes of a date are crucial to make sure a second date happen. Do you have any fun plans for the rest of the weekend? The final questions should easily transition you out of the date while subtly implying that you’d be down to meet up again.
If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer.
If you’re confident, ask if she or he would like to continue the date someplace else. ) alternate ending to the night rather than simply going your separate ways after drinks or dinner. There’s this cool bar I know around here, want to go grab a drink? Want to get coffee/dessert after this somewhere else? My friend’s actually having a party a few blocks away, do you wanna stop by?
This phase is tricky, and should only be reserved if you’re really feeling strong vibes.
Asking questions during a phone conversation isn’t something you do randomly. Asking the right questions and in the right order can make a lasting impression and can make sure you get the date.
It’s also an essential part of being a great conversationalist.