But if you can exercise forgiveness in small ways at the start of a love affair then you’re more likely to find ways to forgive the bigger hurts and transgressions, if and when they happen. There are good rows and bad rows but make no mistake – everybody argues.Ridiculing or humiliating each other is not a good idea, or a good omen.
Appreciate what life still has to offer while you can.But for whatever reason, I've typically also had more close male friends than the average lady.When you're a woman with a male best friend, people think that you're up to something.But our culture presents only one type as being valid: youthful, vigorous, usually penetrative.It is possible to maintain a happy sex-life for decades with the same person.With the way the world insists that men and women can't ever be friends, your suspicious significant others are just reacting to what they've heard their entire lives. One of the more ridiculous myths about “true love” is the idea of the soulmate – that there is someone out there who is your perfect match.You've wasted many a good hour explaining to your dude that you and your male BFF just spend time just hanging out and play Call of Duty —not heeding the call of each other's booty.Soon, they realize they have nothing to worry about. Enjoy what others have to offer rather than trying to change them to fit your own template of how life and love should be. Expecting someone to be everything you need and everything you are not is a recipe for disaster.We all make mistakes, particularly in our love-lives, as relationships are never easy.