Did I blow it by not giving him a list of my hard limits in advance of becoming his sub?Or is he just a shitty, inconsiderate top trying to take advantage of a novice?The same goes for a top who makes demands that, if obeyed, could ruin their sub's relationships with family, friends, other partners, etc.
We associate age with power, but youth and beauty confer their own kinds of power, and that power can be abused—it can also lead seemingly sensible men to sign their life savings over to 24-year-old Romanian "models." For example: "A 79-year-old retired priest has been left heartbroken and homeless after his 24-year-old husband left him just after their home was put into his name," LGBTQ Nation reported.
"Philip Clements sold his home in Kent, England, for £214,750, before moving to Romania and purchasing an apartment for the couple to live in in Bucharest.
He signed over the property to Florin Marin, so that Marin would have security after he passed away...
Secret Longings Utterly Titillating I love a good run-on sentence—grammar fetishists are going to get off on diagramming that doozy you closed with—so I'm going to give it a shot, too: I don't see the harm in enjoying your ex-husband's flirtations so long as you're certain you'll never, ever take him up on his standing offer, but you are playing with fire here, SLUT, so pull on a pair of asbestos panties when you know you'll be seeing your ex-hubby, and I don't think you should feel bad about this secret because while honesty is great generally and while the keeping of secrets is frowned upon by advice professionals reflexively, SLUT, a little mystery, a little distance, a little erotic autonomy keeps our sex lives with long-term partners hot—even monogamous relationships—so instead of seeing this secret as a barrier to intimacy, SLUT, remind yourself that the erotic charge you get from your ex-hubby—the way he makes you feel desirable—benefits your CP, because he's the one who will be getting a big, fat whiff of your pussy when you get home and there's nothing wrong with that, right? Her best friend "M" is a gay man she's known since high school. He seems cool, but lately I've been wondering if he and J are fucking behind my back. Even a kiss on the cheek happens less than once a week.
Meanwhile, J's Facebook feed has pictures of M grabbing her tits outside of a gay club in front of her sister.